Bedroom Communication

   

    ....So the both of you were going at it in the bedroom and all of a sudden he got an idea and decided to try something new to know if you would like it. And before you knew it a hard hand landed on your behind that you jumped up in shock, staring at him with nothing to say and clenching your buttocks muscles silently in pain. Communication my people...communication...Lol


     Your intimate life isn't going to change much if you don't learn to talk to your partner about what they like and what they don't. Every single individual is different and what rings their bell is just as different. Now this topic applies to the guys as much as the ladies.
     I keep saying that the only person that knows a woman's body well enough to know what works on it is the woman herself and the same can be said for guys. Ladies don't always assume that a pleasing a man is a one way street, you ladies are far more complex yes but sometimes we could be difficult to understand. During, before and after intimacy, I believe both parties should talk about what they did, what they liked that their partner did to them. A little "I liked the way you touched me here and I like the way you teased me there" is a really good way to keep things interesting in the bedroom. If your partner does something that puts you off you shouldn't be afraid to let it out, as long as you say it in a good loving manner. Instead tell them that next time you will show them how to do it that will get to you. Never be afraid to suggest something new that you want to try out to your lover. Establish an open relationship because the best intimacy you can have with your partner is going to be from gaining good knowledge on what they like. Also remember that talking about certain things might be embarrasing for your partner so it take a little patience, encouragement and the right attitude to get them to open up. If they finally do open up then make sure not to make them feel guilty in anyway,if not you stand the risk of losing the chance of a good love life with them.
   
      So from dirty talking, to discussing new styles and positions. You both should always engage in a discussion to get to know each other more and before you know it you both will be making love to each other and flowing like two pro dancers locked in a perfectly choreographed tango. You both will know with little to no body movement what the person wants and you will both flow with each other effortlessly.