Dear Ralph: How do I increase he's volume

Good Evening Ralph
      So I saw your post on linda ikeji blog and decided to contact you on a matter that has been troubling my home. You see I and my man have been married for 5 years now and thing used to be really great in the bedroom. I used to like him to bring out a lot of juice and shoot out when we make love but now he just drips out if you know what I mean. I used to enjoy those days because it made me feel like I was great in what I did and because of it I enjoyed making love frequently with him, we still do it a lot but I hide my disappointment and I think he also knows. I don't know what the problem is. I don't think he is infected because he is really faithful and cheating is not to be considered here at all.  Is there anything you know that can help us out. I know that you give more of inspirational advice but I have read your Bedroom section with the girl and her husband that won't use he's hands and I was just wondering if you could help me as much as you did for her. Thanks and I appreciate.

                                                                                                                                          Anonymous





Dear Anonymous
            The problem is that you two might be going at it too much. Just try and give a little break in between like a couple of days for him to store up enough juice and you will see the difference. Work him up through out all those days that you both wait but don't give in. If possible you both should mark a day on the calendar in your room. Seeing the date right there is going to help he's anticipation and get him more worked up, this will also help a great deal for when you want him to "shoot".
      Then if you want him to shoot out, when you both make love and he is about to climax have him fight it back through he's pelvic floor (like he wants to hold urine back), he won't be able to hold it back like that so when the feeling is about to overtake him let him use the same force to exhale and push it out like he were about to increase the flow of urine.
   And honestly don't just keep quiet with him okay? talk with him when something bothers you so that he knows you care. I know it might seem embarrassing but he will really appreciate your concern. He is your confidant and your life partner, by now you two should be able to talk about these things. I'll make a topic on bedroom communication later for you. So for now just use my advice.

If this doesn't work then get back to me and we will explore more methods... have a healthy and happy married life dear

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