Tuesday Tip: S*xting

 

    We all know how important it is to keep things interesting in the bedroom, so here is a little something you can do to get your spouse in the mood.


Pre-intimacy starts a long time before any physical approach. So you need to start from a long way away to taunt your spouses mind. Thanks to our cell phones, these days it's easier to achieve this. So while your partner is away at work or in a business meeting, take that time to distract him or her. Send a naughty text message that would send all sorts of thoughts to their head. Don't be afraid to get a little raw with your words but keep it minimal and short all the same, like a short skirt, not revealing too much but just enough to get them started. Generally play with their minds. Don't worry, the mind is very imaginative so all you need is to compose the right message the right way and leave the rest to their mind to the job.

Speaking of short skirts, for the ladies do you know something that is more appealing to men than a woman who is fully unclad. It's a woman who knows how to taunt while still dressed. Do a little dress up, your dressing should be small enough to show off and tease but big enough to cover up and keep your mans mind imagining. Imagination is key here, if you send a pic where you are unclad, it takes the imagination of possibilities away. So take a pic of you in a "costume" that would be enough to get him riled up and attach it to your message then forward to his private inbox. The longer he stays at work, the better for you, keep taunting and teasing him through the day. If you do this well at day, then sit back, spread out and watch him explode at night.

Gentlemen, this can work for you also. Be smooth and in control. It would be far better if you already know what she wants. If she likes bondage then send a picture of a handcuff and attach a naughty text to it. Believe me, she wouldn't be able to sit still. Take your time to send messages every 1 or 2 hours to her, tease her mind with your words and have her imagine all the things you can and will do. If possible then send a voice note along to make things more interesting, use your rough and manly voice to get into her head. She is sure to be shaking as she walks in from work later in the day. Take that advantage, tease a little bit more before you start and watch her loose her mind to every little touch you give. Want to watch her beg for it? Then extend that teasing a little bit more while she is cuffed, demand that she begs before you give in. *wink*

Have fun ladies and gents...hehehe