Intimacy before or After Marriage, which is better?

    Will bedroom activities be better before or after marriage. This has been an interesting debate topic on everyone's lips since I can remember, arguments arising and basing around whats right and whats wrong, what the bible said and what you feel, if you are bad for doing it or if you aren't. Well let's look at the both sides and see
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     Well it all depends on you and your partner and how compatible you two are, there are ups and downs to each decision but let's look at the downs.
     If you decide to wait, your partner could be very much inexperienced on how to please you in particular because as you know what works for Jane doesn't always work for Janet so at the end you would have waited all the while only to find out that you both have no clue on how to please each other . Your partner might not agree with you and then comes the fear of the person getting it elsewhere till you are ready. You not knowing if the person you are willing to spend the rest of your life with is enough to satisfy your intimate needs. A busy work and lifestyle after marriage will also have you regretting why you didn't have all the fun when you could
   And if you do decide to do it before marriage then comes the risk of the fun running out before you guys even settle down.  You sharing your body with someone when you still aren't 100% sure that you both will end up in a marriage. The fear of having a child out of wedlock. And honestly the precautionary measures you take to prevent the unwanted pregnancy is just a big turn off.
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    But then again there are people that have been having intimacy with their partners a long time before they got married and are still going at it like jackrabbits and there are still people that waited till after marriage and are so crazy about each other that they literally can't keep there hands away from each other, once they are together they are at it.The thing is, there is no guarantee that if you wait or you don't, that your love making life is going to automatically be out of this world, and there is no possibility that the fact that you waited or didn't wait will give you the reward of having that great animal like hump with an earth shaking climax every single time. If you decide to wait or not to wait it is your choice at the end but just do it for your own reasons not for another persons, but whatever you decide to do make sure you are doing it real good....*winks*

Your opinions...?