Dear Ralph: My man cooks better

 Dear Ralph
          This is really embarrassing to discuss especially since I am a woman and its expected of us ladies to be very good in the kitchen. My hubby knows how to cook very well to the extent that it makes mine look bad. I don't know if he is going to look down on me for this reason. I don't want to loose him because he is a really loving man but I am really afraid because of this whole thing they say about the way to a man's heart being through he's stomach. I don't know, what do you think? I want to hear from a man's side and know if this can rock my relationship
                                                                                                                                               Creme


 Good morning Creme
                       The truth is that there are different ways to get to different men and I can't speak directly for your man but I will use a general view to tackle this. The fact that he is very good in cooking doesn't mean that your own meals aren't good any more. I am sure that you were proud of your cooking until you met him and discovered he's skills. Remember the thing is that he is better and not that you don't know how to cook at all. Still it is good that you are concerned and want your man to be happy in everything so here is something you can try. Observe he's cooking pattern and try to use it to up your game or better yet read a book or have a friend teach you different ways to cook. Don't be afraid to complement him in he's cooking and ask him how he does it so that he shows you, I am sure that once you see how he does he's own you will learn quickly and if possible even improve further on it. You can ask him about a foreign dish that he has always liked but never been able to prepare then try to learn it and make it for him also.
              I can't say the way to your man's heart because it is possible that cooking is just something he enjoys doing but not something he minds in a woman. There are relationships out there like yours that the man cooks better than the woman or that the woman doesn't even know how to cook at all and they are happy. It all depends on the understanding you both have. There is a possibility that you might be worried for no reason at all.
                         
                                                                                                                                                Ralph