Make things right

      I'm sure most of you had a good time yesterday night with the partying and all the fun of being among friends. But you might have come home to an angry partner who wouldn't speak to you because you left them all alone to go be with your friend friends. You probably came back late after they had slept or for those who aren't living together yet, you probably didn't talk to them on the phone through the night till this morning. You are in Trouble! and you know that you have some appeasing to do before you are forgiven right? It's time to make things right.




    This is one of the easiest things to do but most of the time we let our pride get in our way. When your partner is angry with you for lack of attention. It doesn't necessarily mean that they want to take all your time or keep your from having a life with your friends. I just like to think that they love you enough that when they feel lonely, you are the one that comes to their mind and they just want to be with you. I think when you should be worried is when they stop showing any care at all. So Ladies and gents it's time to swallow your pride and make things better for the sake of a healthy relationship and peace of heart.

It all starts from your character as a person. Will you take a more serious approach to talk things out or will you take a more jovial approach. Whichever makes you feel more comfortable but still keeps the peace in your home, just do it. The most important thing is to make sure that you don't let the negative energy in your home linger for too long. Strip yourself of any pride, own up to any mistakes you have made and right the wrongs. The grumpy face he/she is keeping right now is going to be turned into laughter if you know your partner well, take the right approach and maintain patience. Oh yeah! don't forget some humor. Humor is very important.

So for the guys, have in mind that she might request that you help out in the kitchen today as your purnishment. Do not worry, all you have to do is stroll in there with your boxers as she is working on a meal and keep disturbing her or doing the wrong thing until she gives up and chases you out of the kitchen. Then you can decide to pop in every once in a while and check on her or you might as well just tie that checkered apron, put on the yellow latex gloves and come learn a thing or two about the science of kitchenology (there is no such word) 

For the Ladies he is most likely going to request for a massage that would lead to something else. This is the perfect opportunity to jump on his back and stand there or even practice a new dance step on it till he starts pleading for you to leave the room. You can do that or you might as well just have a little fun, give him the massage and get a little naughty from there. Either way you have nothing to loose.

Keep things interesting, lively and jovial in your relationship always...