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Wednesday 3 June 2015

Morning Coffee




    Top of the Morning Fam! How are you all doing on this great Humps day. Y'all know it's Wednesday A.k.A hump day right? The middle of the working week is right here. Left for me you have two choices today, you either push further since you are in the middle and maximize your efforts for the rest of the week or you relax and waste all the efforts you put in since Monday. So what's it going to be for you? Maximum productivity or a total down slide from here? It's your choice so I won't push too much. All I will say is...."Be wise".

Let's empty this cup of morning coffee before is gets cold...What do you say?









So yesterday we had a Dear Ralph and apparently +esit  came through big time for the poster. Poster if you are reading this, esit is a doctor so she knows what she is saying...I hope. Lol. Don't mind me, she is really great. Consider all the things she pointed out but most importantly compare it to your situation and know if it works for you. This is one of the reasons I put this family together, so that everyone can get help and offer help from their different areas of specialty and occupation. As I always say, Ralph doesn't know it all so I really love the input and extra advice you all offer. So with that I'd like to say a big thank you to our head of Medical affairs in the family esit. You rock hard! Also, would you guys like to tell me what each of you is good at? I think i'm on to something here that could benefit you all and the posters as well.

Secondly i'll like to say, welcome back Mr Freeborn. I don't know if you are fully back with us or if you are in with one leg and out with the other but I hope it's the former. We are all here for you and we appreciate your presence. Hope you come back fully and join the family again. You blog wife Thelma has been missing you big time. Lol

I had a short I-don't-know-what-to-call-it post that I put up yesterday titled "I am me". I had drafted that post a while back but somehow I just forgot to put it up. Anyway I read through it again this morning and it got me thinking of what I wanted to tell you guys today.
      You know how I keep saying that you should put in Hard work, grind, never give up, do your best and all that. Well all that is really important when you are on your road to success. However I would really like to advice every single one of you to also be themselves. That is the best thing you can do for you and for people around you. Whether people love you or not, as long as you are being positive and doing what you do for good, then just forget about what people think and be you. Do what you want and what you love. Most importantly, learn to love yourself just the way you are. Yes, it's okay to recognize faults that you have once in a while but that is just a fraction out of the whole package that is you. If you do not learn to love yourself then how do you expect to recognize your strengths and use them to achieve your success. Love yourself more today. Both physically and other wise.

At the end of this post I want you to say one thing you love about yourself. Just one feature, it could be a physical feature, a talent you possess or something else. Just something about you.

For me i'll say that I love my guts to keep pushing and trying new things. My hunger to do something different from everybody and take risks every single day. I just love that about me. *puffs chest out*. hehehehe, i'm feeling like superman right now.

So what's it going to be for you?


Coming up >>> Music: India Arie Ft Akon - I am not my hair ....esit I hope you are happy. Lol


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posted by Unknown @ 09:03   12 Comments

12 Comments:

At 3 June 2015 at 10:22 , Blogger Thelma's cake world said...

There are so many things i love about myself..
I so love the fact that i don't easily give up on things until i achieve my goals...

 
At 3 June 2015 at 10:53 , Blogger esit said...

Lmao how dare you ralph? I am good at what i do hehe.
I love that i never lie to myself. I know myself too well to deceive myself.
i know you didn't ask for this but i hate that I'm my biggest critic ever and i find it hard forgiving myself for past sins.
And india Arie lied! She is her hair, and i am my brazilian hair.

 
At 3 June 2015 at 11:09 , Blogger Omogbolahan said...

I love my dreams, they're bigger than me...happy humps day people.

 
At 3 June 2015 at 12:46 , Blogger Unknown said...

Same to you sodiq...dream as big as you can, never stop dreaming but always take time to fulfill those dreams. It's not useful having long dreams that never come true right?

 
At 3 June 2015 at 12:48 , Blogger Unknown said...

lmao! You are just incurable and How in the world is India her hair you brazilian hair hugging woman.

 
At 3 June 2015 at 12:49 , Blogger esit said...

Ohhhhh don't get me started Mr Shania!

 
At 3 June 2015 at 12:52 , Blogger Unknown said...

That's really great thelma! I hope you keep it up and keep achieving great things for as long as you have breath in you

 
At 3 June 2015 at 12:59 , Blogger Anu Funke said...

For me am really persistent. ...my hubby says wen I want something I must get it by fire by force else nobody will rest...lol
But Attimes am lazy at making decisions but very good at dishing out advice to oda pple #coversface

 
At 3 June 2015 at 15:16 , Blogger Unknown said...

Wow just realised this is a hard question for me as I have been thinking on what I like about my self. I like the fact that I'm just me

 
At 3 June 2015 at 17:16 , Blogger Thelma's cake world said...

Amen to that mr ralphie!!!

 
At 4 June 2015 at 08:56 , Blogger Unknown said...

Well I guess that's a very good answer, loving you for just the fact you are yourself means you love all of you. Nice one laetatio

 
At 4 June 2015 at 08:58 , Blogger Unknown said...

Aagh...my ears twitched when you said good at giving out advice, we would be needing you very much on the blog so don't go anywhere okay? We need that talent of yours.

 

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