Tuesday Tip: Blind Fold 'em

     

 It's another Tuesday tip for the lovers in the house.

So... here is something you can do to get things heated up before the main event in the bedroom. You know that tie you bought for your man? Well if you didn't buy any then any tie at all would do. And to the guys, all you need is a soft, preferably silky ribbon that's semi transparent. I prefer silk because it soothes the skin just fine and creates a relaxing effect when it rubs against the skin.


Alright so get your partner to play along with this. Use the cloth to blindfold them. The rule is that only when you command it can they touch you or touch the blind folds. So their hands have to stay perfectly still. Then, while they are blind folded, you don't dive straight into the action. You have to tease them, keep them guessing which part of them you are going to touch or kiss next. And remember that they aren't allowed to touch you or remove the blind folds. Use soft and slow touches, graze them very slightly with your touch, a touch that almost misses contact.

Now here is the purpose of blindfolding them. It's to keep them guessing, that anticipation that you create and the fact that they don't know where the next caress would be coming from heightens their skin sensitivity. Also, robbing them of their sense of sight further increases the other senses and in this situation, the sense of touch is greatly increased. The sense of smell is also heightened and many might not know it, but this plays a vital role also in our love life.

Combine this technique with a little bondage and the Ice cubes technique that I talked about in THIS POST. I promise you, if you have the patience and execute this well, you would have them come back for some more. Speaking of bondage, watch out for next weeks Tuesday Tip, we just might discuss that.

That's it for today, have fun guys...