The success of your relationship start from you

Your relationship starts from you! Have you ever sat down to think over your relationship? To wonder what role you play in your love life?

We encounter different problems and issues in our relationships everyday. We seek ways to work things out or in some cases give up on the relationships and move on to the next. But what most people tend to forget is that we ourselves also have a role to play in these relationships. I believe strongly that before any other thing, we all should check ourselves. Be sure of who we are and the things we do wrong.


Before we blame someone else for their flaws, we should be able to check ourselves and recognize our own. This rule applies in general life as well as in our love life. Most of the time, people who say that they are cursed with meeting bad people or feel that all the members of the opposite sex are the same have this same problem. They aren't able to see their own faults, they go blind into relationships,not realizing their own problems and never wonder why all their relationships end up the same way. It's just like what people say, same procedures leads to the same outcomes. There is no two ways about it. Well, some of the time, it's because of who you are and not who the other person is.

If all your relationships keep going bad or even long before you have a long list of relationships gone bad, I want you to learn to check yourself. Be truthful to yourself and find out those things about you that are hard to cope with. Find out the wrong behaviors that you exhibit and learn to admit them as your own flaws. Try to work on these flaws. The thing is that if you show enough dedication towards getting your wrongs to be right, then even if you don't succeed, your efforts alone are sure to give an understanding partner more patience with you. That way you would notice that your relationships estimated life span is extended and if you keep working towards your flaws for long enough, I believe you would make significant change in no time.


So before you look to blame your partners for the issues in your relationship, or curse out to the universe for dooming your luck, look into yourself. Be truthful to yourself and listen to the complaints people give about you. Check yourself to know if it is really true what they say, then make an effort to correct things as much as possible. So do you have a rude attitude? A short temper? Are you too relaxed and never paying attention? Do you over react? If possible get a good friend of yours to check for you. You know those friends that are really blunt and don't care how angry you get and they just tell you everything the way it is. Yes, them! get one of those annoying friends and ask them to tell you what they feel about you.Think about what they tell you, regardless of how annoying it could be, just accept the truth when you realize it. When you are done doing that, believe me, you are going to start seeing changes in the way things work for you.

You want to be in a happy relationship? Learn to be a happy person. You want to be in an understanding relationship? Learn to be understanding. You can't go into a relationship as a grumpy person all the time and expect a different outcome. I know this isn't always the solution but nothing and no one can give you 100% of the solution under one statement or topic. You just have to start from somewhere to work at it, so I suggest you start from you. Change, Success and Happiness are just like Charity...They all begin at home.

The success of your relationship starts from you...