Feeling left out?...I have an idea for you

    Naturally as humans, in order to belong to something or feel comfortable we create groups. Sometimes we group together not necessarily to make others feel left out or make them feel bad. We do this for different reasons like to protect ourselves, have support and feel like we are normal (stop trying, we are all crazy. lol). When I say 'feel normal' I speak of people who are perceived as weird in their society for one reason or the other. Grouping is important but there is a consequence for those who aren't in any group, they feel left out. This can lead to different conditions that might not turn out too good. So whether at work, school, home or any other place. This is for those who feel alone and left out, you don't have to be lonely.  You can do something about this...





       I know the feeling isn't easy to deal with. Sometimes you almost or even develop hatred towards other groups because of how bad they make you feel. They might not do anything directly to you but the thought of them all happy and together just happens to irritate you. You don't have to let this happen to you. Do not let the feeling overtake you, the truth about this is that you aren't left out. There is always a reason and similar interest that brings people together to form a group and if you do not share that interest believe me you would be better off not in that group with them .
      Think of it like this, if you are in school and there are different groups, maybe grouped by their love for different genres of music. One group loves Afro-pop, the other love rap, another loves hip-hop and so on. Then in that school you happen to be one of the few considered odd or not even noticed because your choice of music is Gothic like punk,metal or hard rock. Now let's say that the group that loves Rap are this really friendly bunch that don't exactly mind that you want to hang around them. You get into the click and mostly they discuss this genre of music that you have no clue about. You are only going to feel worse and feel even more odd.

Now here is what you might want to consider. There is no way in this whole world that there is nobody that has the same interests as you, even if it's just a little bit. There are others like you out there. Here is the problem, because of society and that same way you have been feeling. They are crawled up on their own not knowing where to go to feel among. Just like you, they feel left out and feel there is no one out there that's like them. The thing is, you aren't going to meet each other if you both stay crawled up wherever you are. Why not be the one to make the first move. You have to go out and be proud of being who you are then let them find you. Better yet go out there and find them yourself. There are people out there like you and you are going to find them if only you are willing to search for them. Do not stay angry at other people for not letting you feel among. You are better off without them, believe me. Not because of what they might have done because sometimes they never did anything to you to begin with. Just simply because you deserve your own crowd that understands you. Redirect the energy in your anger towards finding people that have your kind of mind.

Finally, let me tell you this. You see the "odd things" you do today? Those things that very few people admire and they shun because it isn't the "In-Thing" or simply because they don't understand it. Just stick to it if you really love it. That is your own path and you do not have to belong to or walk any other path. Some of the greatest names out there where once perceived as freaks but they are seen as geniuses today because they stuck to the 'weird' that they know.

So let me say this right now to you. "You aren't left out, you are just in the wrong place".