To Forgive or To Forget

    Hey everyone, so I just thought up a little fun game i'll like us to play. It's a simple game of making a simple choice and living with it's consequences. I might bring up more of these in the future if I figure out more interesting ways to do it but for today we are doing "To forgive or to Forget".

As I said it's really simple, all you have to do is pick one over the other but ready the conditions.





So in life we are constantly faced with the pain of betrayal or any other kind of hurt (intentional or non intentional ) from people that are close to us and we have to either choose to forgive them or not. However it isn't news that forgiveness isn't complete without forgetting but then forgetting that pain that they caused us is a huge problem on it's own and could prove almost impossible. Today you are granted with a rare opportunity (fictional of course) to either forgive completely or to forget completely. Now here are your choices.


Forgive: If you choose to forgive the people, you would still live with the hurt and pain of what they did to you. It will constantly torment and haunt you but you wouldn't do anything about it because you have forgiven them completely. However since you remember so vividly the pain these loved ones caused you, you are able to recognize when they are going to hurt you again and brace yourself or possible stop them from doing it at all.

Forget: Now if you choose to forget the hurt that you have been  caused, you would go about freely with nothing in your heart. You would live with no pain, no hurt and no memory of what has been done to you. You would completely forget what they have done to you and be able to move past and feel no pain. However, you would be vulnerable to them hurting you again seeing that you have no memory of what was done to you. You would be easily targeted by the same people and seen as easy so you will be pushed over and over again. Your memory of the hurt they caused will fade after 24 hours.


So what's it going to be for you. If you were to choose between these conditions of Forgiving or Forgetting what would it be for you?