Dear Ralph: I Like "IT" a lot

Dear Ralph:
   I am a sucker for good bedroom dancing if you know what I mean, I get frustrated if I haven't had my way in a couple of days, I easily get turned on but I can't stand bad love making. I feel guilty most of the times but I can't help it, I'm trying to stop it and control my urges a little more any tips?...oh yeah and i'm female

                                                                                                                                             Anonymous
 


Dear Anonymous,
       Good day m'am and welcome to ask ralph blog. First of all I want to tell you that you do not have a problem, I don't see this as a problem at all. You are not the only woman out there that has really high libido, increasing number of women are beginning to admit that they are more into intimacyy, although sadly a higher percentage still find it hard to come out and admit thanks to the society constantly labeling them with a name or two. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you as long as you don't let it interfere with your usual daily affairs and activities and as long as it isn't causing problems in your relationship if you are in one. If your really want to reduce it then fine there are a number of ways to control your raging hormone that you could look into later, but I don't see any reason why you would want to do that, for all I know it's a blessing and your hubby should feel lucky if you have anyone in your life.
     As for you wanting really good love making all the time, it isn't going to be possible to get it that good every single time but you can explore your own self or if you have a partner you both can explore together to find what works best for you both. You can contact me if you have any difficulty in reaching the heights you want to get to, I'll offer some solutions, techniques and positions that might come in handy in the bedroom. A healthy and active intimate life is't going to be achieved under a day so you require patience and some experience to know what gets to you. Embrace this part of you my dear, don't feel guilty for having a natural feeling just because society says it's not okay.

                                                                                                                                                     Ralph