Something for Singles: The Truth about "Someone will come along and..."

 

Could this truth be why you haven't met Mr/Mrs Right?  





We have seen these quotes  like the one I put as the post picture over and over again . The types that end with "One day someone will come into your life and make everything better" or something similar.  Our friends and social media contacts put them up to either give hope to themselves, other people, make themselves feel better and many other reasons. But these quotes aren't as plane as they seem. Their is something else that people forget when reading this,, something that isn't written down there. And that is what will determine if the person who comes along will stay.

You see as long as you are in a relationship, you have to constantly remind yourself that it isn't only about you. So while waiting for the person who will walk in and make things better for you, remember that you will also have a role to play when the person comes around to keep things good. If you fall on the person fully and expect him/her to carry all the load in the relationship while you rest from "what you have been through" then you are still going to loose this person. Some people who do this do it because they want to 'test' if the new person is going to be a better person that their last. Your reasons are very much understood but believe me , this is part of the reason the new person will still get up and leave then you will find yourself waiting for Mr/Mrs right not knowing that you have pushed the person away.
   You have to learn to treat every new relationship as a fresh opportunity. Remember how I spoke about energy transfer in THIS POST? It is the same concept. Do not bring the problems from the old into the new. Do not relax too much because of all you have been through. That person didn't experience it with you and deserves to have you at your best if you are going to get the best from them.

So think of this while you wait for the right person to come along. Maintain the right attitude and be at your best. Do not ruin the chance of having a good relationship. You can't be Mr/Mrs Wrong and expect to meet Mr/Mrs Right. Think of these points and know if it is part of the problems you are facing with maintaining a relationship today. Make sure you are good enough for appreciation while you wait for someone to come along and appreciate what you have to offer.