Friday Fact: Relationship Fact

     In today's Friday fact we are going to look at a strange fact concerning  relationships. This could help you out in your relationship if you look at it the right way.  But don't worry, i'm going to do my best to explain it very well to you. Alright let's do this...




Psychological studies show that a single person tends to notice only happy couples and starts regretting being single. Also the same studies show that a person in a relationship tends to notice only people that are single and happy then also starts regretting being tied to a relationship.

So let me ask you, how true is this for you? Has this ever happened to you? You can leave a comment below while I analyze the effects of this fact.

For my solution to this. I keep saying this all the time my people, I hammer on it and I really hope you guys have at least learnt a little from my verbal carpentry skills. The answer to this is, your state of mind. Yes this fact is true because I know most of you can vouch that this  happens but you need to train your mind to not see only the negative side of things. You have to train your mind to search for positive things in your surrounding and your status.

The reason you only notice the happy people in the opposite side of your relationship status is because of the problems you face at that point. For example a single person feels lonely and longs for companionship so is bound to see only the happiness in the faces of any couple, this is even if the couple isn't seeing eye to eye at that point.
     Then a person in a relationship facing all the hardship and stress that comes with it is bound to see only the "freedom" that a single person is experiencing. The thing is not to forget how you felt when your status was different from what it is now. You just have to try and look more at the positive side of your status be you single or in a relationship.

Do not envy others because of the smile you see on their face today, it might not be the same tomorrow.  If you truly do not like the way things are for you then fine, you can change it, just do it for your own reasons. But remember that each side has it's ups and downs. None of them is a complete smooth ride, you have to choose your struggle. The choice is yours, it will require some effort to perceive your environment differently but by all means, choose to see the positive side of your status.