April Polls: What is the Number 1 reason for failed marriages.

From cheating spouses, Lack of communication, No compatibility or understand and  down to Lack of respect. The reality remains that relationships seem to be breaking apart more frequently everyday. Now we don't know if things have been that way ever since but all we can do is analyze with what we have in front of us right?

According to certain people, it would be possible to reduce it if the society to could pinpoint one particular problem from all these that is responsible for this problem.

But before we continue I want you to look to the left of this blog and scroll down a little, especially those on PC (i'll try and support for mobile devices soon). You will see a Poll with 4 categories and the title matching the title of this post. Got that?! Awesome! Alright just keep reading and i'll tell you what we will do at the end of this post.




 I am going to simply analyze very briefly what each of these problems could bring to your home and your relationships before we conclude so let's start with

1. Cheating Spouses: This one brings that ghen ghen ghen action film soundtrack to the scene of your relationship. lol. This could be the most popular reason for relationship disasters and as the name suggests, your partner would feel cheated out of the love that they thought you both shared. They would feel cheated out of the commitment and promises you verbally or non verbally made to each other when you entered the relationship.
2. Lack of Communication: This boasts to be the most popular amongst relationship analysts. Without communication then there would be no understanding. Without understanding there would be clashes and with constant clashes, one person is bound to get fed up and decide to move on
3. Compatibility Issues: Or should I say lack of similar interests and lifestyle. Although it is said that sometimes it is important to look for your direct opposite and be with the person but it isn't always so. Sometimes it's important to have that person that you can relate with, someone who would be interested in what you are interested in and not just to please you but because they understand and appreciate it naturally. Nothing is forced.
4. Lack of Respect: Without respect from the both parties in the relationship there are 2 things that could happen. The first is that one person is bound to get tired sooner or later and start lashing out. Also if the lack of respect comes from both sides then it's only a matter of time before the couple wear themselves out and get fed up of each other. The second is that the thrill of the relationship is going to wear off faster than usual and unlike other relationships that would be left with friendship or emptiness (worst case scenario), this situation usual ends with bitterness and detest for each other. This is also one of the reasons of abusive relationships.

   As you all can see, every single one of all these is very important in relationships. However we are still trying to figure out which one is the Number 1 so here is what I'm going to do.  I'm throwing this one to you the audience. I want you to tell me what you feel the Number 1 reason for failed marriages is. Leave it as a comment below then also do one more thing for me...

Look to the left of the blog and you will see a voting pole titled "What is the Number 1 reason for failed marriages". All you have to do is click and vote then by the end of April we will check the results. Hope to see you all participate from now in the monthly Polls.