Friday Fact: Mixing it up for the 'Big O'

     It's a fact that about 40% of women in the world have never achieved the Big O before. It is generally hard for women to reach that point for many reasons. Either the lack of knowledge of the woman about herself and her body. The man or the woman's impatience. Lack of spice and variety and a truck load of other reason. Today I want to discuss about variety because it plays a huge role in getting you there. It's a fact that a percentage of ladies that don't reach the 'peak' is because they don't experiment during intimacy and test varieties.  I know you want to click the link and read more. Oya don't be shy just click it.




   During your build up and I specify on this "during your build up" you want to start slow and try out different things. This is very very essential and you might have no idea how important it is to mix things up. As humans we get really bored doing the same thing over and over again so when it comes to intimacy there is no difference. A little bit of this and a little bit of that would go along way in building the tension up real good. You want to start out and not stick to just one position or routine. It's best to change positions and try from different angles with different movements. This is for both the men and the women.

Don't just start up and dive into one thing and keep at it forever. Don't be afraid to go down, come up, turn around, turn to your side or get lifted and suspended . All these are very good ways to change things up and if you are creative enough you would see that there is an endless stream of variations to these that you can use. Always experiment with care during the beginning and work your partner up.

The only time you should keep steady at whatever you are doing is when they are obviously and clearly scrambling with pleasure. If they say you shouldn't stop or start clenching with pleasure. Do Not I repeat DO NOT stop! keep doing whatever you are doing till they are done.

But first of all. Start up slow and mix things up at the initial stage.It's very essential