Relationship: Communication

Communication is said to be the key to success in every relationship, whether parent-children, husband-wife, boy-girl or even between a man and he's trusted canine companion. The most important thing in communication is manner of approach,
do you know your significant other well enough to know how to approach them? do you know the words to use to get their attention? the right character might just be the difference between why he's brain is downloading every word you are uploading. Without proper communication you are going to find the both of you arguing about every little thing and constantly misunderstand the message trying to be sent across. Take this scenario for example, you can always call up your close friend and say "Mumu how u dey? you never baff abi? idiot, I don dey ready so quick finish make you carry me drop for office". This is you asking for a favor while insulting your friend, but you know for sure that your friend would laugh it off or probably return the insult right? But you wouldn't use this same manner of approach with your boss at work who has been waiting to duct your monthly salary would you? So study your partner well enough to know how to get to them verbally, find the best way to get your point across to him/her and i promise you will notice changes. And for a start you should speak with the intention of being understood.